Balance

Sad- I hate the idea of Steve coming back home. It's horrifying for me to know he is again going to throw a trantrum at me and just continuously criticize me. It erodes my self esteem. This relationship is hitting toxic limits. According to Americans, leave. Balance is the word. A relationship gets toxic if I let it. I was talking with this guy from LIC and realized how refreshing it is to connect with healthy people. He likes gardening and cooking. An attorney. Men who are spiritual are beautiful to be around. THe difficulty is the feeling of guilt. I met Steve at a time when there was no one for me. THat's why it's hard. He helped me out ina period no one was except my family. There is no emotional safety in this relationship. He breaks up and I have to try hard to get him back. It's not healthy. I should let him leave. I also don't have much time. I have to plan for a family.

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