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I feel very sad to move out of Manhattan. This is the best feeling ever in living in such an amazing affluent exclusive lively area. At the same time, if I have resorted to the steady comfortbale job in Justworks, i won't be able to think of having kids this year. Because I made $155,000 at justworks and $4000 went into my rent. So for a month I am only left with $4000. The plan is to put in $3000 for 3 years to build $100,000 to have kids. That means, I would be 37. Emily is 37 and her egg count is drastically low and there is very low possibility of having kids. I can't wait for that long realistically. THat's going to be a conversation with Steve on 1/28. In this new job, I have the possibility of saving up $100,000 in this year itself. If I move to Queens then my rent is goign to be half of what I am payign now. and my salary took a bump of $50,000 almost. Thats the commission componenet. So there is a possibility I can save $100,000 this year in the BEST case scenario. I can plan on having kids in this year itself. At the asme time I am terrified of going through the avepoint court case. If I lose, that's gonna cost me a ton. Have to prepare for the worst. I am lucky to have got very good lawyers. Let's see. I have set up a 6 month plan and will be sticking to that. Helping aiya with visa work again. Let him take the lead and be a man. It's not healthy to be his mum and act like his mum.