Update

I felt uncofmrotable after presenting to the office. I felt I overshared. It's also the whole cultural adjustment. In Sri Lanka, it's ok but here everything matters. Anything can go against the me anytime. I had a long dream last night. It was about work and work environment. I feel exhausted already after that dream. I didn't want to go to office today because I feel very exhausted. Partly because of the relationship as well. Not sure if I should go ahead with the break up or adjust. The braeakup for sure disturbed the current equilibrium. He always wants to break up so I feel the best is to braek up. Can't go in a relationship when the otehr person is unhappy. I also forget to do the basic things like collecting the lunch box from office. Literally hate it. April and March had been tough. And i failed CISSP, Got a bad rating in my performance evaluation. I need to work super hard. It's actually the relationship. If the work relationshps work well, then the performance is good, These two are far more correlated than any skills. It will be ok. Need to push through.

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