June 1st

I pat myself on the back today for waking up at 4 am and falling back asleep. Yesterday I woke up at 4 and fell asleep again. Day before, I tried to wake up at 4 and couldn't. Now this is progress. I am forcing myself to do what's good for me. Waking up early gives improved focus and you are already winning. It builds the winning mindset. I want to do well in the job, in the relationship and focus on building a happy family. I know what failure looks like so doing anything and everything to stay away from it makes me feel secure. It's also a trauma response. But this time I want to be relaxed. chill. take it easy becasue little things can help a lot in getting far in life than mere hard work. It's about the llittle things- how you sound, how you walk, how you speak, CONFIDENCE SHINES! Corporate trauma is the worst to deal with, Same thing keeps happenign over and over again. But wait, I am doing things differently this time at least. I am giving myself credit for that. In the corporate, it's not the brains that matter, nor the skills, IT'S THE PEOPLE! i LOVE TO live in Manhattan by the central park in one of those fancy apartment buildings. Unwavering confidence is what's important

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