Birthday Weekend

Weekend goes so fast. Saturday I was so exhausted that for most of the day I slept. I had an interview for an advisory position at a non profit and I hated an interview in a weekend to be honest. Also felt like it's not what I am looking for becasue I am looking for something STEM related. I have decided to remove Sri Lankan parasites from my life. Chin, Dhanushka. They are just watching you, trying to use you etc. I don't want any of them. I have to take a break and block Chin. Going to wait for a bit because things are still fresh. The fact that Chin is still in good terms with my harasser in Sri Lanka alarms me. I can't believe I befriended someone who knows my harasser. I have to take a breath always before I respond to people than acting on impulse. Anyway,if I block Chin right away it doesn't look good. Have to wait a bit. I am exhausted. Weekend is not enough to do everything. Most of my efforts go into non value adding activities like, scrolling throuhg social media, watching sex and the city, cancelled the plans of visiting East Hamtons. I think it's a great move that I am switching to John's team. Joe doesn't highlight me. It's good that I made the decision early on before any toxicity happens. Now things are positive and it looks good for me to switch. I am disappointed in myself for befriending Chin. He proved the same person, won't support or help and all about using people. Also he is friends with my harasser. How could I have been so ignorant. Time to be more picky about people. I couldn't do a single CISSP exam. So disappointed in me. I spent time on that Grads call. However, it was productive. Then laundry, shopping. cooking. It goes on. I have to put in a lot more effort intot he CISSP exam.

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